Many couples met at work, for example, but any man flirting with someone at work these days is asking for trouble.
NEVER believe what women SAY they want, look at their behaviour.
This has happened so often to many of women I know I stopped asking them for funny stories about their dates.
You, similar to 99% of posters here, exhibit a defeatist attitude.
I dont initiate txts very often but sometimes i do.
They married and had their bumps in the road but they are still married.